If ever counted, then we would be shocked to know the number of times we would have thought about the concepts of "I", "ME", OR "MINE" - things always being related to us has been such an unknown obsession to us that many times we as well turn around and check where the person walking behind us is going - for we are scared that he might be stalking us.
And since I am as well like any other normal human being, I as well felt or say had been with this minor yet not so recognized thing called - self obsession.
A state of being interested in oneself , one's happiness, things, motivations, interests etc to the exclusions of other things. that's what the google says, and though we all might say no, we aren't such a person or what ever it is we surely do not agree with the part where we exclude other things, somewhere or the other we do, we somehow or the other have the traits of being interested in ourselves.
For instance, I had a friend who would always come to me and say, "yaar aajkal yeh actor kuch jyada media mein nahi aane laga?" but this statement would have a huge story behind it, where she would have discovered this actor of hers in some movie, followed him on every social media site and then since she had known about him, he was famous and all over the media.
Whereas, if given a thought, than we would know that it had always been there, all around us, just that now it did had a name, a face recognizable and understandable that we think they are well known or in trend.
And this isn't what we really find just with regards to actors, but as well with cuisines, fashion, places and each and everything that we could point out to. These things were there where they are, its just that one fine day you and us we have been known its importance and value.
And somewhere it was through this did I realize how funny it is, we do say that the world "REVOLVES AROUND US" - us as a whole lot of people, and yet tend to forget that its not "REVOLVES AROUND ME"!
